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Kids don't gain perspective by being told that they are overreacting. That is how kids learn whether or not their emotional state matters to others. Kids learn perspective thru the process of being given the opportunity to feel their feelings. As a child develops, they are able to feel in their bodies the difference between small and big grief which helps them to notice that some things are smaller than others in emotional terms. When a child is crying over any disappointment, they need you to h
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One of the most helpful scientific findings in attachment research is the percentage of time our kids need us to be in tune with them in order to feel secure with us…30-50% is the estimate. We can mess up and still be secure attachment figures. As long as we also own up and repair effectively when we flub. To learn more about the art and science behind secure connection and repair comment the word SECURE below and I’ll dm you and order link for my book Raising Securely Attached Kids. Love on. |
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